
March 5, 2026
Toughness: How to Get Mentally and Physically Tougher | Ep 35
In this episode, I break down what toughness really means—the ability to not give up or give in to something difficult while continuing to function effectively. I explore the different types of toughness: physical, mental, and psychological, and why developing toughness expands what's possible in your life. I discuss when being too tough becomes a problem—the difference between pain and injury, and why you need to "discipline your discipline." Use toughness when continuing moves you forward, but use restraint when it makes things worse. I then provide practical methods to develop both physical and mental toughness: hard training, challenging workouts, cold plunges, multi-day fasts, and putting yourself in psychologically difficult situations. I break these into three levels—daily discomfort, controlled adversity, and real stakes—because toughness isn't something you have, it's something you practice. Life will test you, and being tough means you'll be ready. "Mental Toughness and Individual Differences in Learning, ...A Systematic Review" (2017) in Frontiers for Psychology https://tinyurl.com/vmpwp2xv Adopt-a-Pet.com https://www.adoptapet.com/ Dave Kovar https://www.kovarsystems.com/articles-and-resources/who-is-dave-kovar Freakonomics "Upside of Quitting" https://freakonomics.com/podcast/the-upside-of-quitting-3/ David Mitchell Find Dave Mitchell on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dmitch442/?hl=en Royce Gracie https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Royce_Gracie Rickson Gracie https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rickson_Gracie Douglas Wong https://www.whitelotuskungfu.com/about-masterwong.html Rigan Machado https://www.theacademybeverlyhills.com/instructors/rigan-machado/ Jack Seki https://budoshin.com/about-bjj/budoshin-lineage/jack-seki/ Swiss Cadet Study "Systematic review- Mental toughness across domains" https://tinyurl.com/y9trs93v Iron Man Triathlon https://www.ironman.com/ Tabata App https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tabata-pro-hiit-interval-timer/id346432063 Juice Fast https://a.co/d/0hdvWoPm Seishiro "Henry" Okazaki https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seishiro_Okazaki Danzan Ryu Ju Jitsu https://www.danzan.com/ Sig Kufferath https://www.danzan.com/HTML/PEOPLE/kufferath.html Bernice Jay https://www.danzan.com/HTML/PEOPLE/bernicejay.html Toastmasters https://www.toastmasters.org/ 00:00 - Intro: What is Toughness? 01:50 - Why Toughness Matters 05:29 - Types of Toughness: Physical, Mental & Psychological 08:49 - Benefits of Being Tough 13:11 - When Being Too Tough Becomes a Problem 14:51 - Discipline Your Discipline: Pain vs Injury 17:00 - How to Develop Physical Toughness 21:30 - Martial Arts Training for Toughness 24:30 - Mental Toughness Training Methods 27:11 - Cold Showers & Daily Toughness Builders 30:50 - Backpacking & Multi-Day Fasts 33:05 - Deep Tissue Massage as Toughness Training 35:26 - Non-Physical Ways to Build Psychological Toughness 37:13 - Three Levels of Toughness Training 38:09 - Final Thoughts: Toughness as Practice Music “Disambiguation” by Robel Borja https://open.spotify.com/artist/7j0DUZ79z4edeLkU2H1UoJ?si=eISl0YfaQ-yLThljs48j5A








